From: Linda Day <lindaday@historicalsocietiesnh.org>
To:
Subject:    AHSNH/Listserv--Vol. I, # 15
Date:    Jun 27, 2005 11:26 AM
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 --Linda Day, Association of Historical Societies of NH
 
Up Front:
    The discussion, Hiring Part-time Together, continues at our forum, which you may access with a click at http://www.historicalsocietiesnh.org/ahscgi/yabb/YaBB.cgi?board=gdiscuss;action=display;num=1119225722.  There are now five replies and the participants are asking good questions.  Where will this lead?  All opinions are welcome.
    Today is the New England Museum Assoc. workshop in Manchester at the Millyard on Site Management.  Drop everything and head over.  Then write to let us know what you learned.
 
Contents:
Our first summer jaunt                   
A scuba find in Ashland?
Turtles in Hopkinton
Communication Tips for Volunteers
 
The Association's First Jaunt:
    The stalwart Ladies of Center Harbor joined me for the Association's first Round-Robin Summer Jaunt to Franconia and Sugar Hill.  I dare say a good time was had by all, in spite of the heat. 
    The bus driver suggested our using a smaller bus for a smoother ride--and air conditioning!  The radio had declared the day a bad-quality-air day, so I blessed his contribution.  Both the Franconia Heritage Museum and the Sugar Hill Historical Museum were delightfully cool, making the mere walking-in a joy.
    We were met at Franconia by both Jewell Friedman, the curator of Franconia, and Winnie Harwood, our cheerful host for the day.  Ms. Friedman gave us the Curator's Tour of the museum where we saw their fine collection of musical instruments and the detailed time-line of Franconia's history.  What a job to pull that together!  Along the way we talked shop, discussing changing/permanent exhibitions, finding & training volunteers, signage, and accessibility.  Out in the barn we explored the summer kitchen and winter sports, saw the collection of belt-driven machinery and a forty-pound butter churn!  Just the thought of churning butter, never mind 40 # of it, makes one glad to do the grocery shopping.  Well, by-and-large.  Upstairs we saw their fine school collection.
    Ms. Friedman graciously accompanied us to the Iron Works Interpretive Center where we could talk about some of the challenges inherent in keeping a site open 24/7.  The tip of the day is a source of reproductions: 
            Cartographic Associates,
            11 Pleasant St., Littleton, 03561;
            800 322-4540;
            http://www.cai-info.com;
            contact: Donald Butson, Pres. 
They not only did an enlargement for Franconia for a reasonable price (!), but they also did a reproduction for the Interpretive Center that has shown itself resistant to fading after a year outdoors.  Ms. Friedman left us here to prepare for Franconia's afternoon Garden Party, and I hope she will let us know how that went.
    Now we drove up the hill past fields of lupines, as promised!  The bus sounded like we were watching fireworks on the Fourth as we exclaimed to each new find.  At the Sugar Hill Historical Museum we were again honored with the Curator's Tour as Ms. Harwood, Exec. Director, wears both hats.  Their summer's exhibition, A Woman's Work Is Never Done, explores the labor and labor-saving devices of our foremothers, not the least of which was a 600-pound "laundry stove" for the express purpose of keeping irons hot!  What a bright exhibition hall Sugar Hill has, cheerful, right down to the breeze at the clothesline.
    Outside we toured the barn and carriage house, but we were only too happy to be invited to take our victuals inside for lunch--hush, now!  We picked up all the crumbs!
    The Ladies of Center Harbor are long-time travelers around NH and one of the special treats of the day was listening to their descriptions of how things had changed over the years.  Laurel-bedecked pith helmets to you all!  Thank-you, Winnie Harwood, for organizing the delightful jaunt and for drinks & sweets.
    I hope you, Reader, will join us on the fourth Saturday in August for the jaunt about the seacoast.  If anyone knows of tour buses available along the coast, let me know.  We are hoping for a little more leg room, as well as air conditioning.
 
for Ashland:
(Resident Gossip's Note:    What's this we hear about scuba-diving in the Squam River?  Anything exciting you can share? )
 
from Little Nature Museum:
     Nationally acclaimed artist, author, and naturalist, David Carroll, will present a free program, “Seasons of the Turtles and Wetlands,” on Saturday, July 9, at 10 AM in the Community Room, Hopkinton Town Library.  David’s program will take us on a journey through the annual cycles of turtles native to New Hampshire, beginning with their emergence from hibernation.  He follows the turtles through a mosaic of marshes, swamps, fens, streams, and vernal pools; through early spring activity, courtship and mating, nesting, summer behavior, emergence of hatchlings from the nest, and the return to hibernation.  
     David is the author and illustrator of four natural histories:  The year of the Turtle, Trout Reflections, Swampwalker’s Journal, and new for 2004, Self Portrait with Turtles.  He will have books for sale and for autographing. 
     For more information:  http://www.littlenaturemuseum.org; 603-746-6121
     Library directions:  http://www.hopkintontownlibrary.org  
 
from Governor's Commission on Disability
57 Regional Drive; Concord, NH 03301
Tel: (603) 271-2773 (Voice/TTY);  1-800-852-3405 (Voice/TTY);  FAX: (603) 271-2837

COMMUNICATION TIPS

  • Offer to shake hands.
  • Speak directly to the person.
  • Identify yourself when meeting someone with a visual disability.
  • Treat adults as adults.
  • Do not patronize people.
  • Address everybody in the same manner.
  • If you offer assistance, wait, then ask how you can help.
  • Do not lean against or hang on to wheelchairs.
  • When you bump into a wheelchair, acknowledge your mistake to the person sitting in it.
  • Listen attentively when talking with people who have difficulty speaking and wait for them to finish.
  • Place yourself at eye-level when speaking to a person who is in a wheelchair or on crutches.
  • When speaking to a person who is hearing impaired, look directly at the person. To get their attention, tap them on the shoulder or wave your hand.
  • Do not distract or pet service animals.
  • Don’t get hung up on words like: hear, see, walk, run, etc.

True or False?

  • Disabilities are always visible.

  • People with disabilities are not healthy.

  • Everyone who is disabled is likeable.

  • People with disabilities work and play ONLY with other people who have disabilities.

  • People who use wheelchairs must also have hearing, speech, and mental impairments.

  • People with disabilities love to hear stories about other people with disabilities.

  • People with disabilities do not have the same thoughts, feelings, and emotions as others.

  • People with disabilities cannot possibly be independent.

  • People with disabilities need to be protected from failing.

  • People who are deaf cannot speak but can read lips.

  • People who are blind have exceptional hearing but don’t go the movies.

  • People who are developmentally disabled remain childlike and need supervision most of the time.

  • People with disabilities are highly motivated and tend to do work of higher quality than those who are not disabled.

  • People with disabilities are inspirational, courageous, and brave for being able to overcome their disabilities.

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.”

The truth is, words can and do hurt people. Words are powerful tools that can bring people together or keep them apart. When referring to a person who has a disability, remember that people with disabilities are not asking you to use a special vocabulary just for them. Every person is made up of many characteristics and few want to be identified only by their ability to play tennis or by their love of fried onions or by the mole that is on their face. Every person has differences and by simply describing their differences in accurate, non-judgmental words you will convey respect for individuals. Speak of the individual first then use positive phrases to describe the disability. Choosing affirmative words and phrases will help establish empowerment, dignity, and respect for individuals with disabilities.

 

Empowering, Affirmative Phrases

Disempowering, Negative Phrases

person with a disability

the disabled; handicapped

person with an intellectual, cognitive, developmental disability

retarded; mentally defective, childlike

person who is deaf

the deaf; deaf and dumb

person who is blind, person who is visually impaired

the blind

person who is hard of hearing

suffers a hearing loss

Person without a disability

NORMAL person

person who has multiple sclerosis

afflicted by MS

person with cerebral palsy

CP victim

person with epilepsy, person with
seizure disorder

epileptic

Person who just had a seizure

He took a fit

person who uses a wheelchair

confined to a wheelchair, wheelchair-bound

person who has muscular dystrophy

stricken by MD

person with a physical disability, physically disabled

crippled; lame; deformed

unable to speak, uses synthetic speech

dumb; mute

person with psychiatric disability

crazy; nuts

person who is successful, productive

has overcome his/her disability; is courageous (when it implies the person has courage because of having a disability